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I was talking to a group of my girlfriends the other day and the topic of dating came up. No, neither had entered into a relationship and was now deleting their apps because their exclusive relationship required it, but rather, they were deleting their apps because they were talking to too many men, going on too many uneventful first dates, sending out too many messages only to receive radio silence, and getting too many “Sups” from uninspired suitors.
There have been a rash of complaints against online dating sites, according to the Better Business Bureau.
Is there a way to break the texting game or is that who that person is by nature and there’s nothing that can be done? Honestly, there’s no winning if you view a relationship as a game in the first place.
Whether or not it’s intentional is something you can never know for sure, so it’s in your best interest to believe it’s not (and if it is, then it’s because of some fear or issue he has and not because he’s trying to manipulate you).
A huge factor in having good relationships is finding a way to move through the world and be in the relationship in a way that doesn’t activate your defenses.
As in: “He’s doing this to me/against me, so I need to counteract what he’s doing to me and win…” There’s no winning/losing in relationships…
I hate the whole game of one person sending a text and the other waiting two hours before responding, even if they have their phone and aren’t busy, just so they don’t seem desperate.